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Dear Jenna,
Huh. This is a good question.
Let's see...well, I think for me it would depend on her age and whether she had some place to live because I think both those things relate to financial stability and "money sense" for lack of a better term.
If she were older; say 18 to 20, I think that, yes, I would advise her to search financial avenues before considering placing her baby I'd definately encourage seeing what type of programs are offered for single moms; including job training. A woman that age would be out of school and better equipped from a maturity standpoint to deal with raising a child (my opinion only). I think she would be better equipped to deal with the stresses. Also, I'd advise her to seek financial redress from her partner; push for child support to help shore up her and her babies financial security.
If she were very young though; say 15 or 16, I think the issue might be more complicated due to a girl that young not really knowing what the world is about. I think a younger girl might be more at the mercy of the world, especially in a tight financial situation. Just my thoughts.
Have a wonderful day!
Janey
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