[michsm]

This is one of those situations that I don't understand either. I have my ff placement that has a sister. When she comes for visits either my ffk have to stay with me or she does. I inquired about this the other day (receiving respite for her). My argument is when she comes to stay with me I am required to take on all my normal responsibilities as a fp, to report everything back to her CW, transportation, meds, line of sight care. They will not give respite for her. If it wasn't for my home she would not be able to have visits.

I just dont understand why they are willing to give you spending money but not respite. Have you inquired up the line yet? You are probably in a situation like mine where they know you are going to continue to do it whether you receive the respite or not.