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If the father wants to parent then IMO he needs to do what needs to be done..
The lesson just keeps showing up.. asking to be resolved..
I say tell them they know not what they do.. and let it go..
Dysfunctional families.. and making sure you are part of the dysfunction..
What is wrong with knowing you know what you are doing and supporting you.. you the family member.. Knowing you know a lot more about this then they do..
Obviously they would rather do a critique.. easier..
I have read many letters from potential birthmoms that do not want the father of their baby to parent.. and IMO they have reasons.. and heck the law is the law and the father of the baby has his rights and all he has to do is follow through.. and if he is not following through then IMO this shows his real desires.. If you want something you work for it..
And the baby is so important in all this.. the baby is growing and learning and changing...
Jackie
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