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Well of course I don't have twins but I am a SAHM and i have joined a few play groups. My neighbors and friends all know H is adopted and it really hasn't been issue at all. We talk about issues now instead of pregnancy stuff. Also some even thinks he looks like me which I dont see at all.
I also had lunch with mom's from Gymboree. I haven't told them H is adopted yet. It really hasn't come up and right now I just feel it's really none of their business.
In my experiences playdates have been awesome. No drama at all. Go for it!
ps I think when you talk about adoption I have found everyone I told has been really supportive and just interested in the process. I have had anyone day anything negative yet. Although I do have 1 lady ask why did we adopt. I told her it's personal and you really shouldn't ask people that. She apologized and that was that!
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