Hey Kathy and everybody (again)!
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I would love to have D put into words how he feels about me. Given the fact that he invites me to be part of life events (birthdays, etc.), I feel he wants me to be part of his life.
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I was thinking about you just the other day Kathy. I was thinking that it must be a different landscape with sons. My daughters are quick to express emotion; like I am; like most women I suspect. But sons? Fathers? Brothers? Sigh....I think they trip on their words maybe. If you know what I mean. I am curious these days to see, if and when I meet them, how they will approach me; one daughter; one son. It will be sort of scary but wonderfully interesting too I think.
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I hope my presence has been a positive thing for him... but we don't talk about that...
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You know Kathy, you describe D as a friend. So maybe that actually gives you some leverage to ask this question you so badly want to ask. I mean heck, we've all gone to our friends for reassurance. You know questions like "Have I been of help to you in your life?" or "Has my friendship made your life better?" I think it's okay to ask him if you ask like that. (Just my opinion).
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The fact that your bmom continues to write regularly says to me that she really does want you in your life (regardless of the life she had made for herself without you.)
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That makes perfect sense. I double this sentiment!
Hugs to ya Kathy!
Janey