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Originally Posted by BrandyHagz
I don't want anything from them...I really don't, but Robin, you're right...they could have gained...and while I don't feel I personally lost anything by being placed for adoption by my birth mother (we had an open adoption, which helped, I think) - I did lose something by them deciding that adoption wasn't their 'bag of tricks' - but refusing to allow me to be placed in another family...as young as 4 mos old (when they discovered and told the attorney they'd made a huge mistake).
Ah well...what doesn't kill you.
I have no idea if they did it just to see what I'd say...ya know, no...I don't think they did. I think they fully expect me to check out of my life for a month and come stay with them...(they don't live together...)
Ugh.
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Again, I am so sorry about this for you.
Also, I want to share that you are an amazing resource for the folks who read/post on this site. Your wealth of experience, both positive and negative, allows you to see clearly in so many situations. Thanks for all you do-