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SAHmom...I can totally understand why the child you adopted is now in foster care. You did what you had to do and some have to do this with their bio children.
To me adoption is more final then giving birth. Many women can give birth to a child but many of those giving birth never [i]planned[i] for the arrival of a child. Those that adopt have to have thought about this and done whatever necessary to get the child/children.
Whether a child is adopted or bio...there can be issues where the child is so ill that safety has to be the answer. With many of the children you all are talking about it seems that these "adoptive parents" thought no more about the needs of a child then someone not ready to be a parent having sex without birth control.
To me we are a FOREVER FAMILY and always will be. Luckily my boys' conditions are under control for the most part and I pray that things stay that way.
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