[KelleyF]

Originally Posted by finallyfree05

I spent 7 years in foster care, and even though I had an awesome foster family I can honestly say I wish I had been placed with my grandmother. Instead, I missed out on getting to know my bio famiies.
Obviously though if the grandmother can't care for the baby then thats different, but if she was deemed a fit placement there must be something we aren't seeing. I pray for that baby though that Grandma can care for her the way she deserves...bio family is always best when its possible.

I agree. It is best whenever possible.
It's just not possible for a 70 yr. old to raise a newborn adequately. The child will suffer. However, I believe contact with the child and the grandparent is very important.