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Originally Posted by ranoutofnames
So the events he is telling you would have happened when he was around 3yrs old? Supposedly at least a year ago is when it happened?
There is a chance no one will do anything. At this point it's unlikely there is any evidence and even if there was they couldn't determine when it happened. In addition, children can be very unreliable in their memory of events.
I'm not saying he's not telling the truth, just that he's very young and memories get distorted.
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Now, in our situation, FS was five when he was placed with us but the abuse had happened at age 4. He gave a statement and when biomom and her boyfriend refused to cooperate with the investigation, it was filed as substantiated and charges were filed against boyfriend. OP will probably not get that lucky as biomom will probably deny any wrongdoing and without evidence it will be his word against hers ......BUT.... OP will feel better knowing she reported it and it will be a papertrail to help support the justification for therapy. Plus, you never know, mom may break and confess and they could get her the help she obviously needs. Slim chance....but we can always pray!!!
Kim
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Wife to:
 DH-J for 5 years
Mom to:
DS-H 14yrs
DS-S 2yrs
Current Placements:
None- my little one going through terrible twos is also about to have a tonsilectomy. Ugh. If you have stories of success please pass them to me. If you have a horror story, please, I don't think I could handle it right now. LOL
Former foster son came this past weekend for his birthday celebration and one last hoorah before school starts. I was happy to see him doing better.
Former placements:
four boys!!
 and FINALLY respite for one baby girl
Aunt to:
11 Nephews......when does the male madness end! 
Mom for McCain 
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