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Somewhere along the line this thread took the position that the bmoms husband is the bdad, which he might be; however, that was not how it was worded in the original post. I would talk to the bmother. If he is not the bdad, and is her current husband, why does he need to be present for the visits?
Even if the birthsibling is this husband's child, they would not allow him around a child if he had an offense against children. We used to have a neighbor with one son that had to register as a sex offender. He had committed a crime against a 14 year old girl, when he was 18. It was not rape (or any form of sex, but it was inappropriate for him to be doing anything with a 14 year old). He had a 13 year old brother, and he had to move in with his grandmother because he was no longer allowed to be in the home with the younger brother once he registered as an offender. I would talk to the bmom about it. Explain your concerns.
I also think a neutral location like Chuck E. Cheese is a great idea.
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