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Just remember that your not responsible for the possible adoptive parents (longing and hoping for a child) and your not responsible for your parents (desire to raise their grandchild).
The only one you need to concern yourself with right now is YOU and YOUR BABY. Make your choice with only that in mind. What you feel is best for you and your baby.
Everything else will fall into place. Someone WILL be hurt in the end...likely many people. But in your parents case...they can bring back/sell/give away/ or store for later any items they have bought. For the adoptive parents they can find another child. But what are you and the child left with? A life long decision. One that only you can make and most directly affects you and your child for the rest of your lives.
Try and erase everyone else from the picture. Try not to worry about what they will think or feel and focus on you and the baby.
Try and enjoy this last week of pregnancy and cherish it. Regardless of whatever choice you make, you won't ever get this time back. Take a step back from all the stress and allow yourself a chance to enjoy YOUR Pregnancy/Your Baby. Maybe the answers will come to you if you just take a break from it all.
Everything will be ok. Everything will fall into place as it should. When the time comes you will know your answer and you'll find peace in your decision and know you did the right thing for you and your baby.
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