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You brought up some really good and thoughtful reasons for why you think your baby would best be parented by a different family. The fact that your mom thinks that she can be a guardian and that nothing will be weird about that is simply naive. God bless her, I know she loves you and this baby and is only trying to help. I am the one always pulling for babies to stay within the biological family if that is possible, but what you've posted here really shows me you've given alot of serious consideration to this and you may well be right in chosing an adoption plan for this child outside your biofamily. I had a csection also and the earlier post was right: You will be given narcotic pain meds and that, along with the natural hormonal changes that you will be experiencing combine to make this a completely inappropriate time (in the hospital) to make any long-term decisions. If you haven't made any before Saturday, then make them after you come home, but for goodness sake not in the hospital. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I know you are going to make the best decision. I just know it. And whatever it is, you will have lots and lots of support here.
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