[JustPeachy]

Ashley, if your support is limited at home, keep coming here. We understand exactly what you are going through! Your bf probably finds it hard to see you so hurt, and doesn't know what to do/say. Also, he didn't carry a child for 9 months and give birth. Like Janey, I don't mean to sound sexist, but the guys just don't experience the bonding the way women do. We've had 9 months to get attached to the baby while we carried him or her. It's a whole different dimension. That's not to say your bf is not grieving the loss either, but it's just different, and the guys usually don't like to talk things out so much. Do you like to write in a diary or journal, or do artwork like drawing or painting? That is another good way to get your feelings out.