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I know how you are feeling. Although, I do have more time to think about it. I'm 21 years old, 17 weeks pregnant, I'm married but when I told husband I'm pregnant, he dropped me off at a friends house and left. He went home to live with his mother (I'm assuming), and I haven't talked to him since. Honestly, I would give ANYTHING for a member of my family to be willing to adopt my child. That way I would always know FOR SURE if he/she was ok. I too have thought about open adoptions, but the other posts are right, they don't always work out. My fear is that I wont be able to care for my child the way he/she deserves.
I wish you the best of luck, I'm sorry that the answer you're looking for isnt just laid out there for you, but it truly is a decision only you can make. Consider not placing him right away, who knows, maybe once you have that little life in your arms you'll want to parent, with the support of your family, I'm sure you would do just fine. Good luck. PM me if you want to talk sometime.
((((Hugs))))
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