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Originally Posted by abjbadopt
Someone said that your baby deserves to be with his family...it is true and his adoptive family WILL be his family too if you choose this. Maybe your parent can have visitation too if you choose adoption.
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I think we said that a baby (who is helpless and has no voice in the decision about whether or not to separate him/her from his/her genetic family) deserves every chance to grow up in that genetic/ biological family. That does not mean that an adoptive family is not a family. I'm sure you are a wonderful mother to your daughter. However, here is a situation where a child has that opportunity to grow up in its family rather than relinquished to people with no biological/genetic ties and, therefore, it is my firmly-held opinion that if this young woman and her boyfriend don't choose to raise the child, he/she should be raised by his/her grandparents.