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"If someone is doing straight foster, they do not have the personal agenda of wanting to build their family.
It's not a judgement about who is a better person, it is just a statement of fact."
I do agree that parents who want to adopt have a "personal agenda". But you word it like you are wanting these people to admit something they are doing is wrong. Yes they may have a goal to adopt as a primary BUT those people are needed too. If everyone fostered there would be no forever families made. We all work together and there is nothing wrong with it. I think straight foster people also have some sort of "agenda" to be doing what they are doing day in and day out. I am not saying this "agenda" is a bad thing but never the less people have reasons for the things they do. I just don't understand your point I guess. I have met alot of people doing straight adoption in the agency I am working with and all of their "agendas" are to build their family WITH children that need that forever family and love in their lives. There is more than one "agenda" and all of them are good.
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