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Maybe that is the problem "divorce starts with 2 people who can't get along" If you have children and are getting a divorce, it should be what is best for the children, but it rarely is. I think often times an open adoption turns into--what is best for "me" whether it be the birthparent or the adoptive parent. How many open adoptions have been closed because one of the adults in the triad were uncomfortable. It should always be about the child--but when people's feelings are involved-it rarely is!! Just my opinion.
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