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Ohh, I agree with Mixed Bliss. I felt my tummy knot as I read what Susshy said.
I do not agree at all that this is a "new age" thing. To me knowing heritage etc. is a timeless thing. Secrets are a huge detriment to our very souls. How can the game of "pretend" that adoption is be healthy for anyone if we are not at some point let in on the "secret"? Without knowing we won't have a knowledge that our aparents medical history is not our own for one thing. I read another article on the hereditary factor in certain cancers. Should we remain clueless and therefore not have the proper screening or "watchful" eye on our health? Health info. has been a case of life and death in my situation.
And why should everyone else know but not us something that is an intricate part of us? Why should other arelatives etc. know something intimate about us and we not have a clue?
I could go on and on!
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