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I have sooo many thoughts on this but I'll only give a few. Will your love be enough? I don't think so. Bring a child around ignorant pepole (yes, if they use the n-word and have racist ideas they are IGNORANT) is something I would not advise. I noticed you kept saying biracial. Is this better than full AA? I can tell you for some people the one drop rule still apply. Remember Obama is biracial but he sure looks AA.
As i've stated several times before i'm AA and DH is CC. 98% of our friends are CC. I'm the only AA I know in my community. Not saying I am the only one but I haven't met another that lived around here. I am saying this to say it can be hard period. You need a safe haven. When your own family members treat you like an outcast then that's a huge problem.
I can tell you I have met racist people and once they got to know me they changed their tune. With some of these people I also think they love me BUT would say i'm not black "black". KWIM?
I just feel like do you really want to bring your child into a situation where your family could possible damage them? I'm sorry but my child will never be around ANYONE who would make such comments.
Last edited by SupaModel : 06-30-2008 at 02:19 PM.
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