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"Having a baby and giving it up for adoption is extremely stressful and both bmom and bdad may not react in a way that they are proud of 18 years from now. But, the bottom line, is that his bmom loved him enough to carry him and to give him to people who would love him and raise him when she didn't feel like she could. Nothing should ever outweigh that fact. "
jrainbow - thank you very much for saying this line. It means so very much to me today.
OP - I think you have been given great advice, but I would add - give it time. You may not even remember half of what you think is important now. As your relationship develops with your growing child, you will know what you are to tell him and what you are to hold back. Some of the minute details will just fade as the memories grow, if you know what I mean.
Good luck!!!
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