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Old 06-30-2008, 12:18 PM
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Mike,

I think that is a great first letter. You offer no excuses, no expectations, and provide him with valuable medical information. You leave any further contact to be initiated by him and that is definitely the way it would be handled. The only thing I might like to suggest is that you be sure to let him know whether or not you would be open to further communication. A simple statement such as " If you choose to initiate further contact, please know that I am open to this and am willing to continue at a pace of your comfort and choosing." Lastly, to prevent the scenario of not knowing, be sure to send the letter certified, return receipt requested. Best of luck to you and congratulations on your continued sobriety.
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