Remember that there are children in foreign orphanages who at one time lived with families who loved them very much and are healthy kids, just life happens and they end up in an orphanage. If one or more of the parents are killed, end up unemployed, etc. they just cannot care for their children. Not all children are in orphanages because they were abused or neglected. It is possible to adopt a healthy, loved child...but how often you can find that child is another question
We have friends who adopted 6 & 7 year old brothers from Russia. She said it has been very difficult but the boys had gone from a home where they were neglected to an orphanage where they were neglected, but in a pack of other neglected kids. She said they have improved tremendously, but it was/is a journey not for the weak at heart.
good luck to you
Karla