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and I felt the need to pipe in also
this is not fair to the kid or the kids already in your home
he needs to be where he cannot hurt other children (RAD or not)
the thing I have found about RAD kids, if sexually acting out is going to hurt you the parent more, then sexually acting out they will do... they seem very good at finding what will upset you the most...
and just living under the police state, it does harm to the already there kids...
just something to think about..
I was also told my son was not sexually reactive or that he had no record of being sexually abused ... but that was not true in the end, a much older foster child was moved from the foster home he was in the longest for perping on the other kids... my son has PTSD from sexual abuse in his birth home, etc...
most training will tell you that about 80% of the kids in foster care have been sexually abused in some way...
you got to think about keeping yourself safe, your other kids safe, and not hurting this little boy more... from the sound of it, he needs to be the only or much younger kid and have his own room and lots of undivided time with a parent.. for a good long time.. and it would be a good idea for him to live somewhere he had no one to hurt, no pets or other kids..
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