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We are hoping to adopt. I will nurse the baby. We are very upfront about this plan for 2 reasons. 1. We feel it would be unfair to not disclose this. If the firstmom is uncomfortable with this, that is not fair to her or the baby. Since we want an open adoption, it would just get weird if I needed to nurse the baby in front of her. 2. We want to find a mom that is looking for someone who will nurse her baby. There are moms out there who long for that and we want to be available to fulfill that mom's wish.
So, there are probably a lot of expectant moms that will discount us because of this. That's okay. There are others that will discount us for other reasons. (Our non-religions, our race, our...) But the right mom/family will (hopefully) find us and choose us.
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