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From the moment they were interested in books and pictures, we showed them pictures of their tummy mommy, their half siblings, and other birth family and referred to them by name as we did our family. It's not an open adoption but we knew at some point it would open dialogue for them and also, it wouldn't turn into something that we had a hard time discussing. It was about 3 though, when they started asking questions and now, it comes up often but is just something they know to be true, their adopted and their tummy mommy chose us to love and raise them and be their parents the way she would if she could and they know she loves them.
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