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In my situation our son is refered to as OURS. I brought him into this world, but they're raised him. He's 11 now, but they've raised him from a young age to know that he had a bigger family that most children and was extremley lucky to have so many people that love him. Since they were telling him all of this at a fairly young age, they refer to me as his tummy mommy.
I would agree with other posters that if you want to have this open adoption then you need to be open with all of your emotions. I strongly beleive that is what the amom would want from you as well. If you don't tell her how you're feeling about this it will continue to snowball into bigger things. Don't delay in addressing it with her!
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