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As previous posters have said, you have time to make your decision.
I was a freshman in college when I got pregnant. My parents sort of offered to adopt, but that felt just so not right to me.
Now, 23 years later, I know my son and am glad that he was raised in the family he was. Even though it's been hard on me(still is), I do beleive adoption was the right choice for me.
BTW I also thought 'I don't want kids' 'I don't like kids'.
I finally had my first daughter 5 years ago (18 years after I placed my son) and I'm thrilled to have kids now.
I miss the years I've lost with my son. I will never have the relationship that I could have had with him. My heart ached everyday BUT I still feel it was the best decision for us.
Listen to your heart.
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