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Hi Lyric,
First, let me give you a ((HUG)) and let you know that we here DO care and are here for you.
You have heard from Amoms and Bmoms, now your are going to hear from an adoptee. As a grateful, happy adoptee, that was adopted within the family. My Amom was bmom's sister. Adoption was the BEST thing that could happen for me, but I believe it was only because I was adopted within the family.
I am not against adoption, but adoption is a permanant solution for a temporary problem. I know you say that you do not like kids and never planned on having any, but you are stil young and while it is great to have plans, hopes and dreams, things do change.
I cannot imagine the stress and discord going on in your life right now and I am sorry you are having to go through it. Your parents only mean well for you I am sure though this is still your baby,he is their grandchild.
Please also know that you do not owe anyone your baby and you do not have to make any decisions right away. Take all the time you need with your son and you will know exactly what is right. If you have any doubt what so ever, about giving your baby to these people you met, that is more than likely your heart telling you not to.
Please don't rush to hand your baby over or sign papers. Maybe your parents can take him home and then you can make a decision.
Please read what other birthmoms and adoptees have to say and know that the consequenses of this decision will be something you will live with for the rest of your life. I wish you the best.
EZ
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