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Please don't worry about the effects you will have on your birthmom.. that is for her to sort..
And sort it she must..
Search for you.. and ask what you need or want to ask..
If there is no lasting relationship so be it.. the cards will fall as they will.. You were relinquished and you need answers that is the bottom line..
There are good people here and they can help if the going gets tough..
And I would tell your birthmom about your life in your contact letter.. maybe keep the negative things back till later.. Keep it simple as they say in twelve step program..
I can remember when I first looked for my bson and called Tallahassee to register and told the man that I worried that my son would not be okay.. he said to me.. Well if he is not okay you can maybe help him..
Jackie
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