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I remember after adopting DD that I found all these blogs where adoption is not depicted too kindly. It was my first experience seeing stuff like this and it made me really upset. Now I take it for what it is worth...an individual's experience. Also, my DH is an adoptee and would no sooner have an "adoption blog" than eat glass .....so I don't know that you can draw any generalizations about adoption just by reading blogs, though of course they can be very educational/give food for thought.
Adoption has been a wonderful thing for my family and I don't feel "bad" embracing that. It involves losses, of course, that need to be acknowledged. Don't beat yourself up for focusing on yourself, getting ready for adoption! Good luck!
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