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Originally Posted by jf5505
I was just reading some adoption blogs, adoptee blogs, birthmom blogs...and I just feel so upset. I just have been so self absorbed lately trying to get the home study done and profile that I guess I didn't take the time to see how hard adoption can be on an adopted child or a birthmom and now I just feel anxiety and sadness. Is this normal? I am really scared that when I do adopt a child they will have to deal with adoption issues or the birthmom will regret her decision...ugh...I guess I knew all of this, but to see it in writing just makes me sad.
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You can't solve the worlds problem. In no way should you feel bad about being excited about getting homesetudy, profile etc... This an exciting time. Enjoy it. If you had a bio child there could be issues as well. I say be a great parent to your baby. Love them and take it as it comes.
DS birthmom was very happy that we adopted him. There is lots of good and wonderful blessings that come from adoption.