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Originally Posted by taramayrn

I ran across this great blog post by Coley - Open Adoption, Adoption Openness, Adoption Contact - Being Friends with my Son's Mom

It got me thinking and wondered - if you weren't connected by adoption would you be friends with your child's other mother?

I long for it. I have always hope we'd be friends. I thought that there was a big possibility of it based on our initial connection. With both women I felt (and they stated) a close bond from the beginning. I even talked a little yesterday in my blog about how hard it is because things haven't happened that way. Both women are very important to me and I have always hoped (still do) that someday we would be close.