[jbee]

we ended up with our son because we took his mom (18) and him (4mo). she looked horrible on paper but we had the room so took them. we weren't even looking to adopt, he was nowhere near tpr because she was with him! we've had no trouble getting pregnant so we felt kind of bad keeping him, but by the time he was tpr'd we loved him and we were all he ever remembered.
so maybe a mother-child situation might work for you. we aren't baby snatchers or anything, but i think alot of times the moms realize just how much work it is and how much of their childhood they are missing. you never know.