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Originally Posted by hkolln
... Since we decided to not visit her and felt it wasn't a good time we never mentioned it to her. I thought that was a dumb question to ask her when I told the SW the day before we left we are not at the point for her to visit with her Mom...
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Sounds like you are allowed to arrange visits with the bmom when/if you want to? My first thought was your daughter's CW is doing her job making sure there is no inappropriate unsafe contact. I think she is doing her job correctly to question the child, since legally isn't the CW the one responsible for ensuring adoption in the current placement will be the best thing for the child? Just because you are honest doesn't mean all the adoptive families that the CW deals with are, and she should not just assume what the potential afamily says is true.
My adaughter was pulled out of her relative pre-adoption placement when her CW found out from the child that the grandmother was allowing contact with the bdad. In my daughter's case it was a very good thing that the caseworker did not trust what the grandmother said.