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Old 06-23-2008, 01:36 PM
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Are all SW's so dumb?!

Our niece's SW proceeded to visit the YMCA where she's attending camp today without letting me know. I did not put her down to see our niece so they called me asking me if the DCF worker was OK to visit...and I asked her name and it was her so I OK'd it. I didn't expect her to visit her at camp so I never placed her name on the list....

Anyways she stopped by to see her to inquire about our trip to visit the previous FP's and our relatives in WA state. Our niece then went on to say "She asked me if I saw my Mom while there and I told her NO" and then proceeded to say "I don't know why she asked me that!?" I'm not sure either...maybe just fishing for information? It seemed to catch our niece off guard and confused her because we mentioned nothing about being in the close proximity to her biomom. Since we decided to not visit her and felt it wasn't a good time we never mentioned it to her. I thought that was a dumb question to ask her when I told the SW the day before we left we are not at the point for her to visit with her Mom. I wonder if she just didn't believe me? Just ticked me off! Maybe I'm just being overprotective

I'm still waiting for the SW to call me to inquire about our trip. I guess she wanted to hear it from our niece for some reason instead of us or without us nearby.
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Mom to 2 girls-age 10 and 15

1st MAPP class: 9/9/2006
MAPP class completed: 9/30/2006
Home study completed: 11/2006
Home study submitted for approval: 11/14/2006
Foster License approved! 11/22/2006
Flew to visit Niece for 3 wks 3/2007
Judge rules placement with us 5/2007

Leaving to bring Niece home 6/15/2007
Niece is offically part of our family 6/30/2007
TPR Bio Dad by default 8/9/2007
TPR Bio Mom voluntary surrender 8/9/2007
Adoption subsidy agreement approved and signed 05/2008

Adoption finalization date 7/18/2008! YEAH






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