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Almost there
My wife and I have been waiting for our first child (adoption) from Guatemala for almost two years. We've been through it all, so I'm not going to go into detail. I'm a 42 year old man and it's taken me a long time to come around to the idea of adopting, but I've learned a lot about children along the way. In my opinion, you should definately tell your daughter the truth of her life. The earlier, the better. It will help her to adjust to any feelings she may have. Even more, she will not have the ability to fully comprehend this kind of relationship. This is a good thing. She will be able to adjust to it over time and will NOT hold you or your husband in contempt for refusing to trust in her at an early age.
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