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Since your baby is so young, I think you can wait (I remember when DD was young - - she is 3 now -- thinking that everything had to be "resolved" but life doesn't work that way sometimes!). I can tell you that we do talk about both her birth parents and visit with both and i am glad her birth dad is in her life (he and birth mom are married with two other children). So I think I WOULD reach out to him at some point (even if you dont' get the OK from DD's birth mom...I don't think it is her "call," really. You are doing this for your daughter's sake.) Good luck!!!
PS: DD's birth mom gave me her MySpace page and there is a link to DD's birth dad. Well, one day, his sister posted a picture of him as a toddler and OMG he looked so much like DD. So yes, I saved the picture. I think you should do the same because sometimes you can't find people later in life and it would be nice to have whatever info you can get.
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