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Denise - (((hugs))). It's hard to figure all this out and I guess she's having trouble too? She may have mentioned that to your friend because you seem so willing to become part of her life and the others aren't there yet. She may, or may not, be shutting you out because it's easier for her.
If it makes you feel a little better, I am finding my relationship with my bson very similar and I'm finding my way out of the worst of it, you will too. We had a great first year of reunion, lots of meetings, calls, mostly e-mails but when bsiblings and bdad (hubby) failed to connect he became distant. I usually contact him now there have been no calls, sparse e-mails. I'm not sure when we'll see each other again.
I too am having a rough go of it at the moment but I'm taking one day at a time and trying to step out of myself and remember that they are all going through just as much of an emotional time. Still I can't help, like you, feeling like he got the information he wanted and that's all folks. Of course, that's from MY perspective. I have to keep saying to myself "we have the rest of our lives to figure this all out" like Kune reminds me, great person by the way, but it's difficult at times.
I would continue to provide her with info and answer her requests and see if she will meet/call again but don't push it time and space sounds like the order of the day. Take care and hang in there.
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