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I have a family member who is now a bmom in a very similar situation altho instead of abortion, he wanted her to parent w/o his involvement mind you. He REFUSED to visit at the hospital and we tried so hard to encourage him to do so... He was steadfast. The parents of her child REALLY believe in OA and reached out to him (on MS) with her blessing. This father's day, the bdad met his 5 month old son for the first time and it was something he swore (back then) he would never do...
My advice is to talk to your child’s bmom and if she is comfortable with it... Reach out to him. You just never know what's in someone's heart or head...
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"You are never given a wish without being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however."
Illusions - The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
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