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I too struggle daily with this questions. Castle's bdad signed before she was born and only wanted to know that a healthy baby was born and placed for adoption. He has no idea that he has a beautiful birthdaughter who looks JUST LIKE HIM. We do have a contact phone number for his parents should we ever need to contact them for medical reasons. I wish so bad I could just send a letter with our website on it so IF they wanted they could go there to see her but I have never attempetd. DH says that he does not want to disrespect bfather's wishes but I am like you, what if he does not realize there is a such thing as open adoption and it's benefits? We do Castle's bmother on a regular basis but bfather lives in Washington State.
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