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You will get lots of answers to this question! Personally I feel nobody has a right to tell you what to do or judge you on this matter. There are plenty of American men who are not circumcised and I've never heard of any of them being hard up for a date because of it. I've heard some men complain because their parents did it; never heard any complain that they didn't; and if they ever want it done, it can be done later; while you can't undo it once it's done.
It's not medically necessary for most boys. It can reduce the chances of some issues, but not to the extent that it should be seen as a "must." It is your free choice. If I were you, and you feel comfortable with your decision not to do it, I would just not bring it up again or discuss it with nosy people. If they MUST know your concern, have a brief response prepared and change the subject. And if, on the other hand, you DO decide to do it, don't let anyone think they have a right to criticize you on that either.
Good luck!
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Mom of Norma and Sara 
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6/06 began paper chase 
9/06 home study completed 
10/06 I-171
11/06 dossier completed
1/25/07 referral of Norma 
1/26/07 referral of Sara
2/23/07 DNA test x 2
3/6/07 It's a match x 2! 
4/23/07(?) out of FC
4/26-4/30 vist trip 
5/5 & 5/7 PA x 2 
5/24 "In" PGN 
6/15 resubmit after KO
8/31 OUT x 2! 
9/11 2nd DNA Auth
9/12 DNA taken?
9/19 DNA at Labcorp
9/21 DNA match x 2
9/24 FedEx delivered to USE
9/25 Pink! 
10-10 Visa appointment
10-10 Norma's birthday party in Guatemala! 
10-12 Norma and Sara are HOME!!! 
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Thank God for a smooth process in Guatemala 
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