I have been told that more times than I can even remember. So, when someone says that to me, I usually say something along the lines of "actually, that doesn't happen that much.....people just make a big deal out of it when it does". And when a person follows it up with how great pregnancy is (which I take as them saying bio is better), I tell them "my kids are better than anything DH and I could have done ourselves". That usually shuts them up.
