Comments like that bug me too. If relaxation was all I needed to get pregnant life would be much simpler!
My husband has a family member who has two adopted children. They were adopted as newborns and are now 9 and 6. A couple months ago the wife found out she was pregnant. Yup, everyone started saying how all they needed was to be patient. People say things like "They could have saved themselves all that trouble..." as if adopting is some sort of burden.
The thing is I know if they hadn't adopted first, people would be commenting about how long they waited to start a family.
