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I'm sorry I don't understand this statement. Wasn't the placement of your child your choice?
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I’ll answer from my POV (obviously not for Belle). When I hear (or read) someone saying that it was “meant to be” then they are taking away a bmoms right to choose - as if this were pre-ordained by God. In my belief system, God would not cause me the emotional pain I have experienced as a bmom, just to make someone else a parent. Wouldn’t happen…
Choices were made which resulted in making my son’s parents – parents. In my situation, God didn’t make that choice, I did…
Personally, I would be pretty upset with Him if I knew He used my body and my life to fulfill someone else’s destiny… My Priest would have to re-explain the whole "Free Will" concept to one angry birthmom... LOL