[MissyAmomChina]

Hi,

I don't think there are any "have to"s in regards to learning Mandarin or Cantonese. I think across the board you'll see folks have a variety of feelings about cultural and heritage connections, classes etc.

We are fortunate that we have access to classes that are every other Saturday. Our daughter especially likes the calligraphy aspect. Parents also participate. I do like learning Mandarin with her and I do like the fact that we are doing it together. Do I think it's good for my daughter? Yes. Do I think it's the only connection or that if you don't do this your child is missing out? No.

On a side note, Mandarin is being taught in more and more highschools and it'll likely be an option when our children are older. Perhaps, your daughter will have the opportunity to make the choice when she's in highschool.