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There is NO guarantees in life. You can have a bio child, adopt a newborn, or adopt an older child and give them all the love, support, and advantages in the world and they can still turn out to be a troubled soul! My DH's brother is a COMPLETE IDIOT! They were raised in the same home, by the same parents, and had all the same advantages...you just never know. I think you are putting way too much pressure on yourself. I have three wonderful kids. My oldest is everyone's dream child. She does great at school, is very well behaved, I know will go far in life. My second child who we have had since birth has always had issues with being adopted and she has some emotional problems so what her future holds is up in the air. My youngest was born with some health issues and we will not know what his future holds till his older. I love them ALL the same and would do anything for them...my job as their mom is to support them no matter what happens and show them the right path to go down.
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