Woohoo's to all who have had good news!
To those still waiting for their news, stay strong.
I've been reading the forum, just not replying or posting much. I usually will read the posts on my cell phone during the day and it is pain to post from the cell phone, so my intent is to post at night but the next thing I know it is 11pm. My DH has had a cold and fever for a few days, so all night duty has been mine. Won't you know it since it is my duty, Almari has woken up the past 4 nights crying. Plus he has three days of school this week and doesn't get home until after 9:30pm. The minute I walk in the door, our "manny" (my nephew) goes off duty and almost runs to his room when we places Alex in my arms. I have to say that at times, the whole 2 baby thing is quite easy and at other times I want to throw in the towel.
I am working very very very hard on not losing my patience with Ms. Alex. (failed a few times
) She is one spoiled rotten little girl. We had broken her of needing to be held 24/7 but since Almari got home, it has returned 1000 times stronger. My DH has the patience of a saint and on Sunday afternoon he lost it with her. Her screaming sets Almari off and then it is a mad house. Almari doesn't scream; it is more like a scared whine when Alex gets to her. It could even be a reaction to how everyone deals with Alex when she has been screaming for 30 minutes straight. PS NOT ONE TEAR IS EVER SHED and it stops instantly the minute you pick her up.
We think they are adjusting well but I really have no clue. How do you know? What signs should we look for?