dylav- sorry you are dealing with so many of the same issues....here is a thread where we have been discussing some sensory issues :
sensory integration disorder support club :)
i love the idea of tokensin a jar. i kept thinking how i could work a positive chart somehow, but being that he is 2, it is not like i can reward him for being good all day...and i really don't feel like an hourly chart.lol....but the token thing is awesome, like maybe let him put one in when i see that he handled a situation well or if he is able to recover from a situation well ?? how big of a jar and what kind of a reward would you give a 2 year old???