I would let your DH handle it. Is he even aware of the problem? My DH's aunt has not acknowledged our adoption and DS has been home for almost 10 months. However, when his sister (my SIL) became pregnant, telling the aunt was such a big deal because the aunt was going to be so excited. I wanted to tell SIL that it wouldn't be a huge deal to the aunt because she hadn't acknowledged my son, but I politely held my tongue. I keep my feelings about the in-laws to myself most of the time - they all talk behind each others backs. It is disgusting. But I digress...vent away here though because we all understand. 
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Kristy
July 27, 2006 - Applied to agency
December 4, 2006 - Jaden is born
January 2007 - Referral
April 13, 2007 - Met Jaden for the first time
May 3, 2007 - PA
May 22, 2007 - Entered PGN
July 12, 2007 - OUT!!!
August 27, 2007 - Jaden is placed in my arms forever!
August 28, 2007 - Embassy Appointment
August 30, 2007 - HOME!!!!
Jaden wants a little sister!
June 30, 2008 - Application is in the mail
July 9, 2008 - First HS appointment (review paperwork)
July 30 - HS visit
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