OKay, just a long shot here. I have no qualifications at all, just being a mom of 3
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My ds (11) just started something with the babies that he saw on Nanny 911. He gives them a token to put in a bottle for doing something good. The babies (2 & 1) are totally into it! Now I know that this idea only focuses on positive behaviors but I can't believe how much it's forced me to notice the positive. DS set up a little store for the girls to cash in their tokens. I never would have thought it would work with kids this young but they are so into their "tokens"
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Peace & blessings to your family,
amy